Photographed by Malachi Westbrook Photography
A Wedding Venue That Doesn’t Feel Like a Venue: The Bower in Edmond, Oklahoma
Some venues are just buildings. The Bower feels more like a place where something real is supposed to happen. It doesn’t scream for attention. It’s quiet. Intentional. And it’s probably one of the most well-thought-out Oklahoma wedding venues I’ve worked in recently.
If you’re planning your wedding and looking for something that feels european, timeless, and not overly styled, The Bower might be exactly what you’re searching for.
Photographed by Malachi Westbrook Photography
What Makes The Bower Work So Well for Weddings
The Bower is in Edmond, Oklahoma, just outside of OKC. It’s easy to get to but still feels secluded. It’s a sprawling estate with open skies. The design is elegant. Luxury estate, natural lighting, large windows, and modern ammenities.
Everything about it is calm. That calm carries through the whole day. From the moment people arrive, it just feels easy.
Here’s what stood out to me while photographing a wedding here:
- Natural light from floor-to-ceiling windows
- Open indoor reception space with clean finishes
- On-site bridal and groom suites with plenty of space to get ready
- Outdoor ceremony spot near the water and gardens
- Smooth transitions between each part of the day
- A quiet, minimal aesthetic that elevates your own style
I’ve photographed a lot of venues. Some are chaotic behind the scenes. The Bower is not one of those.
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A Wedding Story from The Bower
K + H had the kind of day that was so carefully thought out. There was time to breathe. To be present. To have fun.
The bride’s first look with her dad was one of the sweetest moments. They shared the most genuine words with each other and tears were shed. It felt so incredibly special.
The bridesmaids got ready in the main space and the groomsmen were off in their own suite. No traffic. No timeline panic. The ceremony was held outdoors, with the lush gardens and water in the background. You could hear the wind in the leaves.
Following the ceremony, was a beautiful cocktail hour with delicious catered hors d'oeuvres. It took place outside on the grounds and there was plenty of space for guests to mingle from the poolside tables to the hedge garden.
Afterward, everyone transitioned into the reception space without having to rearrange the entire flow of the day. It just worked.
I cannot skip over one of my favorite parts. They had a live band and dance floor, it was electric! Playing pop hits and getting down on the dance floor with their instruments, the band was sure to keep the guests entertained.
It was a thoughtful and beautiful day, and it all flowed perfectly in this space.
Photographed by Malachi Westbrook Photography
Practical Tips If You’re Thinking About The Bower
If you’re touring Oklahoma wedding venues, this list might help you know if The Bower is the right fit for you.
* They can host up to 450 guests
*They have lodging options if you would like to stay the night before or after
* On-site getting ready areas are spacious and separated for privacy
* Ceremony and reception can happen at the same location
* You’ll likely bring in your own vendors, which gives you full control
* There’s plenty of parking for guests
* It works just as well for big weddings as it does for smaller guest lists
This venue doesn’t need much. If your vision leans toward a neutral, editorial style, it will photograph exactly how you imagined it.
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A Few Questions People Usually Ask About The Bower
Is there a backup plan for rain?
Yes. The indoor space is large and open, and can easily be flipped for a ceremony. The windows still give you plenty of natural light, even on cloudy days.
What kind of weddings fit best here?
The Bower works well for brides who love a traditional timeless venue with modern amenities. It is the perfect combination of nature and luxury from the lush gardens to spacious ballroom space.
Do you need a wedding planner?
Definitely recommend at least a day-of coordinator. The space is flexible, but a planner helps bring your vision into it smoothly.
What time of year is best?
Spring and fall are ideal if you want to use the outdoor ceremony site. Winter weddings indoors still look amazing because of the clean interior and good lighting.
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Who Should Consider Getting Married Here
If you’re into spaces that are clean, natural, and don’t need to be over-decorated to feel finished, this is a wonderful option. It’s also a great choice if you want everything to happen in one place without moving locations throughout the day.
Here’s a quick list of couples I think would really like this venue:
* Couples who like clean, editorial aesthetics
*Anyone who want that destination Europe/Italy feel but in Oklahoma
* People who don’t want a barn
* Brides who care about good light and calm getting ready spaces
* Those who want minimal, modern design with some natural elements
The Bower gives you space to focus on what matters most.
Photographed by Malachi Westbrook Photography
One of My Favorite Moments
There was an unexpected rainstorm but the couple did not let that stop them. They had a very quick ceremony and beat the rain by seconds. While it may have been fast, it was so incredibly special. The storm cleared quickly and the couple was able to enjoy all of the indoor and outdoor areas of The Bower without a hiccup.
That moment didn’t make the schedule. But it’s the kind of thing they’ll probably remember more than the timeline ever could.
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Thinking About Oklahoma Wedding Venues?
There are a lot of options out there. It’s easy to get overwhelmed. But I always tell couples to start by asking this question:
How do you want your wedding day to feel?
Not how it should look. Not what color your linens are. But the actual feeling.
If connected, calm, and meaningful are words you’re drawn to, The Bower might be your place.
Photographed by Malachi Westbrook Photography
Looking for a Photographer Who Works at The Bower?
I’m Malachi Westbrook, and I photograph weddings across Oklahoma and the US. My work is documentary in approach with an editorial finish. I focus on candid moments, the love you share, and photos that feel as calm as the day itself.
If you're getting married at The Bower, or still looking for a venue that fits your style, I’d love to hear more about your plans.
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